Characteristics of Attractive Girls
Marriage is a sacred act and is encouraged in Islam, considered a tradition from the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). In our country, it is not customary for women to propose marriage; traditionally, men have approached women or their families to propose. One question that arises regardingproposalsfor single girls on the verge of marriage is why don’t I have suitors? Why do some girls have many suitors? What are the traits of attractive girls? What can I do to find a suitor? Which girls have a better chance of marriage, and why do some receive more suitors? We have answered these questions in this section ofSelMagz.
Appearance and Grooming
It is evident that the first criterion for marriage is appearance. Many men will initiate acquaintance with a woman based on her looks to see if she has a beautiful personality too. While you cannot control your genetic beauty, you can present yourself clean and well-groomed in society, paying attention to your appearance.
Family Wealth
Let us be honest, some men unfortunately look to marry wealthy women. If a man’s only criterion is wealth, it is better that you don’t have suitors than to marry someone motivated by material gain.
Dignity and Qualities
What makes women attractive and dignified is not wealth or a specific way of speaking or dressing; rather, attractive and dignified women focus on their behavior and do not get caught up in trivial matters. They try not to engage in issues that they cannot control.
Family Heritage
Family is the most important pillar in marriage. Many seek a girl from a good family who adheres to principles and values and instills these in her children. Unfortunately, some men measure family heritage in terms of fame, wealth, or social status. Generally, women raised in honorable families are significantly more family-oriented.
Good Behavior
What attracts men to women is good behavior and character. Men need a kind and affectionate companion with feminine traits for a lifetime. They want the mother of their child to be supportive and caring.
Being Cheerful and Lively
Men prefer to have a happy and lively partner and shy away from grumpy, unsatisfied, and whiny women. If you exhibit such behaviors, know that you are not a suitable candidate for marriage. Men believe that life is full of ups and downs, and without a good companion, they will not achieve much success.
Aspiring and Hopeful
Women who constantly speak of hopelessnessNegative Energyin life are among those without suitors because men tend to seek out ambitious girls who encourage them in their goals and help them reach their interests and be their best.
Being Independent
Men have no interest in getting close to or living with dependent women. A woman who shows excessive dependence and lacks signs of an independent and self-made character will undoubtedly lose a man in a short time. Therefore, strive to maintain your independence and distance yourself from dependency with others.
Why Don’t I Have Suitors?
Reasons for not having suitors include:
- Guys are less ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage than in the past, and they do not easily agree to marry.
- You spend most of your time at home, socializing only with close friends and familiar people.
- You are shy, introverted, and do not give others the chance to get to know you and recognize your merits.
- Your behavior and personality lack any feminine delicacy; you may come off as insensitive and tough.
- You don’t pay attention to your appearance, cleanliness, or grooming.
- You are disheartened and neglect sports, health, and your figure.
- You don’t like yourself and do not value yourself highly.
- You are sad, weak, and depressed, and you do not enjoy life.
- You have high expectations and seek a perfect suitor (wealthy, handsome, charming, educated).
- You waste too much time on unfruitful relationships, blocking your opportunity for marriage.
- You are overly focused on seducing and attracting the opposite sex.
- Others have a negative view of you and your family.
The Final Word:
Dear ladies, be careful in choosing a spouse and do not fall into the trap of marrying the wrong person just to escape your father’s house and single life.
