Actions and behaviors that are not suitable for newlyweds.
Every woman, especially newlyweds, wants to conduct themselves with grace and dignity among friends, family, and their spouse’s relatives, earning a special status. Sometimes, these brides make mistakes in attempts to be perceived as classy, which we will address in this lifestyle section.SelMagzIf you’ve recently married, avoid these mistakes to not be seen as classless by others.
Excessive posting of stories and photos.
Perhaps you know women who, after marriage, share photos of everything they do and eat, often labeling them as “first” experiences. For example, they post a picture of the first meal cooked for their husband, or they document every gift they receive, such as jewelry or flowers, sharing these on social media instead of thanking their partner in person. Dear brides, is it necessary to showcase your life online? Life is more than just… social media.Embrace love in your life.
Too much familiarity with men.
Some brides become too warm and informal with their husband’s family due to cultural differences. This can lead to misunderstandings. Dear brides, get to know your husband’s family well and adjust your behavior accordingly.
Changing outfits multiple times at parties.
Some women change their clothes several times during a party, which sends a message that they seek attention. Ladies, to appear classy, one neat and tidy outfit is sufficient; constant outfit changes are unnecessary.
Excessive self-praise.
Some brides overly praise themselves and their families during initial meetings with their husband’s relatives. For instance, to appear classy, they might say they eat out several times a week. If you find yourself saying, “I am a classy girl…”, then you are likely not behaving as classy as you think. Allow others to judge your classiness rather than boasting.
Excessive jewelry use.
There’s no need to wear all the jewelry your partner bought for you during your engagement and wedding.During the engagement period.Use accessories that are pleasant, appropriate for your body, and match your appearance.
Excessive use of mobile phones.
Some brides, feeling new in the group, frequently check their phones or get lost in social media and chatting with friends. If you want to appear classy, refrain from checking your phone constantly, set it to vibration or a short tone, and do not play Instagram videos loudly.
Getting too caught up in fashion.
Some women confuse appearing classy with wearing trendy clothes. While having a great appearance is part of being classy, do not be a slave to fashion; otherwise, you might come off as superficial or obsessive. Avoid clothes that do not suit your body or colors that do not complement you.
Overindulgence and extravagance.
Overindulgence and wastefulness are not classy, so eat appropriately in gatherings with family and friends, follow dining etiquette, and do not waste food. At parties, do not overprepare with several dishes and leftovers; if you have excess food, do not throw it away and consider donating it to those in need.
Excessive curiosity.
One way to appear classy is to remain focused on your own life without meddling in others’ affairs. Dear brides, it’s best not to ask your husband’s family about matters that do not concern you, as knowing or not knowing won’t benefit you. If questions arise in your mind, repeat this phrase to yourself: “What does it matter to me?” to refrain from asking.
Excessive focus on appearance.
Dear ladies, if you have a lot of jewelry and always pay attention to your looks but neglect issues like dental health and other health problems that you disregard by not visiting doctors, I’m sorry to say that you are being classless.
Overdoing makeup.
Some women, due to competition and jealousy, want to appear more beautiful and classy than their friends and relatives, leading them to always wear heavy makeup or seek cosmetic surgery.Cosmetic surgery.These days, light makeup is trending, and heavy makeup lacks popularity; it is considered a form of classlessness.
