Message to Your Spouse6 Types of Messages You Should Avoid Sending to Your Partner
In marital relationships, words play a vital role. Couples must be careful with their language during arguments, disagreements, or even when they are not in a good mood. Certain phrases should never be used as they can ruin a relationship. In this section ofSelMagzwe will tell you which types of messages to avoid sending to your partner.
Do you still like me?
Some women are highly dependent on their partners. An emotionally needy woman may send messages like (Is there still a feeling between us? Do you still like me? Why are you not like before?) when she feels neglected. Sending these messages is a mistake, reflecting a need for validation and self-worth.
Whatever you feel comfortable with?
Research shows that the phrase “Whatever you feel comfortable with” and its equivalents can be more irritating than any other phrase, leading to tension and fights. Avoid sending neutral phrases like (Okay, whatever you want / It doesn’t matter!) and instead express your feelings and suggest discussing them.
What’s up?
If you want your partner to think you are not just lounging around doing nothing, avoid sending messages like (What’s up? What are you doing?). Instead, ask about their day or how things are going.
How far are we going to continue?
Disagreements are normal in any household. It’s better to discuss your differences face-to-face instead of sending messages like (What’s going to happen in the end? How far are we going to continue?
I’m tired; let’s just forget it all.
The way you communicate in a marriage can cause serious emotional harm. Sometimes, you might feel overwhelmed and send messages like (I’m tired; I don’t want to continue; don’t text me). At this point, seeking family counseling would be beneficial.
So what about me?
If you want your partner not to think you do nothing but wait for their messages and calls, avoid sending messages like (Why didn’t you reply? What about me? What happened to you?)
