How to keep men satisfied and interested in your life and after marriage?
When you truly care for someone, you definitely want to marry them. However, marriage is just one part of fulfilling this wish, and you need to know how to act in a way that enhances your position in their eyes.
You obviously don’t want to change yourself for this, and we don’t want that either, but there are small tips to follow that can improve your relationship and encourage your partner to commit to you.
During the engagement period, as families get involved, there are certain considerations you should keep in mind to ensure a good choice. We will discuss these points in this section ofSelMagzlet’s talk about them.
1. Take care of yourself
The first and most important point to understand is that attractiveness plays a key role in any relationship. While your commitment to the relationship should be your top priority, do not let anything compromise your commitment to yourself. Always prioritize taking care of your attractiveness.
Stay active, eat well, spend time with friends, and ensure you do things you love. Taking care of yourself means checking your physical and mental health; if you improve yourself in every aspect, be assured that your partner will notice the changes first and that he wants a woman who is attractive, confident, and beautiful, who doesn’t neglect herself and prioritizes self-care.
2. Avoid drama
You will certainly have arguments and face tough times together. During these times, he wants a partner who understands him and can support him through the challenges after marriage.
Before any argument, take a deep breath and calm your feelings. When you are calm, you create a soothing atmosphere for both of you and increase intimacy. If you are at fault, accept your mistake and apologize; this teaches him to accept his mistakes as well and brings you closer.
3. Trust him genuinely
If you know he loves you, then you need to trust him. Sometimes, it’s hard to overlook insecurities and trust someone, but if you want this relationship to work and to spend your future with him, you must let him see your trust in him. Keep your promises; he will do the same for you, and if he fails to keep his commitments and takes advantage of your trust, then he is not the right man for you.
4. Be comfortable with him
After marriage, he will see you in the mornings without any makeup or design. So, be at ease with your true self and your natural appearance. Don’t stress too much, as he will sense your insecurities about not wearing makeup, and no man wants to live with a woman who doubts herself or constantly criticizes her appearance. Believe that you are amazing.
5. Express your affection
We all like to be admired and appreciated by our partners. He wants to see your capacity for romantic gestures, such as complimenting his looks when he takes care of himself or expressing how proud you are of his job promotion.
6. Show gratitude
You should definitely show gratitude for the things you have in life, like the gifts you receive, the moments you share with him, or the support he provides. Never forget to thank him for even the smallest things.
If he opens the door for you, thank him or smile at him. He wants a partner who recognizes and appreciates his kindness, so show him that even the smallest deeds and efforts are valuable to you.
7. Show your loyalty
If you want him to commit to you, you need to show commitment yourself. Prioritize your relationship; don’t replace him with anyone else and show him how committed you are to him and your relationship. Show him that you deserve the best because you demonstrate your best self in the relationship.
8. Stay calm during his storms
He, as a man, goes through tough times, and therefore, he needs a woman who will listen to him and accept his reasons. He doesn’t want someone who adds to his anxiety. During such times, show him that you are with him and that you can restore his calmness.
9. Fulfill his requests without questioning
When a man makes a request, don’t ask him “why.” With this question, he might think that you don’t care about his happiness, or he might feel that he needs to convince you to help him.
10. Sometimes create space between yourselves
Every man needs time to be alone, and we all need our personal space. Men actually need this solitude more than we do, but we shouldn’t act in a way that forces them to seek time alone from us. Be aware of this so that you can see how he values your presence.
11. Be there during his troubles
When he encounters a problem, be by his side without any extra questions and show him your support so he feels comforted by your presence.
12. Be financially independent
It’s very important that men do not see you as needy or financially dependent. Some men fear marriage because of losing their money, and sometimes men even divorce because of their wives’ spending habits.
13. Learn to tell jokes, but appropriate ones
A sense of humor is essential for everyone, so don’t think that joking with your husband or making him laugh at times reduces your dignity; on the contrary, if you maintain balance, you’ll be more attractive to the man in your life.
14. Learn to criticize
Many men try to show you that issues can be viewed from different angles through criticism. Sometimes, they aim to suggest solutions by doing so. You should also learn how to criticize and how to react to his criticism.
15. Be serious when necessary
Nothing is more off-putting for a man than a woman who doesn’t take matters seriously. A serious matter is something that truly matters, and if you still can’t address important issues seriously, he might think he doesn’t matter to you either.
16. Express your love through your actions
You’ve certainly told him you love him, but words often fade away quickly. He wants to see your love in action, so don’t hold back from showing it.
17. Don’t make excuses
Please believe that you have grown up and now intend to start an independent life as a rational and mature person. Therefore, put aside excuses and childish behaviors and enjoy being with your fiancé or the man you love.
18. Encourage him to succeed more each day
For every man, having a supportive wife is very important and pleasant. You may not realize how impactful your encouragement can be for your partner. Your encouragement and support will surely help him reach higher levels in work and more, so take this seriously.
19. Use the things he buys for you
Everyone likes to know that the other person appreciates their gift and uses it; this is especially true for spouses. When your fiancé spends time and money to buy something special for you, he certainly expects you to enjoy using that item.
20. Find solutions for his problems
Two minds are always better than one for solving problems, so support him in tough situations, so he feels more satisfied with you as his partner.
21. Show your disagreement without discouraging him
There are certainly differences between you and your partner as two different people. The main issue is how to manage these differences. If you react with arguments to these differences, you show that you have not reached emotional maturity. However, if you express these differences without disappointment or negativity, you show respect for his opinions, even if you disagree.
22. Don’t pressure him
Pressuring your man to reach your goals might yield results, but it won’t be effective. It’s better to say it won’t have a positive effect, and your fiancé might agree out of pressure, while harboring no real contentment.
23. Ask him questions when you don’t know something
Sometimes, you hide your questions from him because you worry about his reaction. If you don’t ask him about things you’re curious about, it means you’re insecure and lack confidence, and your relationship will be based on your assumptions and illusions.
24. Keep your excitement high
Marriage is a long-term relationship, and men need to see potential in their partner before committing and choosing a spouse. They want reassurance that this person can keep them satisfied for the long haul and that the relationship won’t become boring.
25. Learn from your mistakes
If you make a mistake in your couple relationship and realize that your error upset your partner, avoid repeating it, as repetition will weaken your relationship.
26. Self-assess
Men usually don’t like to repeat the same mistake and therefore have the same expectation of you. So, if an issue arises and you resolved it, you shouldn’t bring it up again or revert to past wrong behaviors. To prevent this, you should self-assess.
27. Know your feelings
Understanding your feelings and expressing them correctly in the relationship is very important, so enhance your awareness in this area.
28. Show him you can overlook some issues
Your stubbornness and obstinacy have no appeal for your fiancé, so don’t spoil his perception of you and weaken your position in his eyes. Just as you want him to overlook some matters for you, he expects the same from you.
29. Let him know your expectations from the relationship
Be honest and express your needs while adhering to the framework we’ve mentioned several times in SelMagz’s lifestyle content.
30. Challenge him
He wants someone who can challenge him for improvement or to add excitement to his life, and this action will make him stick to you and not desire anyone else.
31. Be as attentive a listener as you can
We’ve often emphasized this important point in emotional relationships on SelMagz: listening, obviously with the required quality, is particularly significant for your partner.
32. Share your time with him
Let him feel that you take time out for him and that you dedicate part of your day to talk and even think about him.
33. Be honest
Remember that honesty must always be maintained, even if it harms someone. Even small and tactical lies will take away his trust in you.
34. Accept him as he is
For every man, it is delightful to hear that his future wife is satisfied with everything he has and who he is.
35. Surprise him
Have fun and creative ideas to surprise him, adding variety and excitement to your relationship.
36. Stay motivated in life
Having motivation in life will give you the passion to keep progressing in every aspect, so carry it into all areas of your shared life.
37. Make him laugh
Laughter is the best medicine for health, and one of the traits of attractive women is that they are often joyful and smiling.
38. Let him feel that you complete him
Men often worry about whether they can support you or not. Can you rely on them as the man in your life? They even ponder how much of a role they play in your happiness, and these reasons sometimes cause them to pull away from you or be afraid of marriage. So, if you want to persuade him to marry you, act in a way that makes him realize that everything he does now is exactly what he must continue doing in the future to keep you satisfied. Consequently, he will have no fear about whether he can make you happy in the future because he sees he has the ability to do so.
All the mentioned points can be implemented with family consultation to ensure the best choice. It’s best to understand the right criteria before finalizing the decision about your beloved man and consider them in making this crucial life decision.
