Actions and Behaviors That Classy People Do Not Do at Parties
In Iranian culture, attending and inviting guests to parties is quite common. You might think attending a party doesn’t require specific etiquette, but like inviting guests, there are certain manners to follow at parties. In this section ofSelMagzWe have compiled a list of actions you should avoid at parties, as doing them may be considered uncouth. It’s better to familiarize yourself with party etiquette to respect the host and have a good time together.
Making fun of and mocking others
Some people try to draw attention or make others laugh by mocking them at parties. While joking is acceptable, crossing the line into ridicule can have negative consequences and undermine people’s self-esteem while fostering animosity.
Following fruits and sweets with your eyes
Another behavior considered rude at parties is following fruits and sweets with your eyes. During the serving of fruits and sweets, wait for your turn and never rush to grab them. At gatherings, avoid being impatient and overeager in eating.
Staring at others while they eat
At parties, focus on eating your own food and never fixate on others’ meals, as this can cause discomfort for them.
Using toothpicks andflossin public
Many people have a habit of using dental floss and toothpicks after meals, but doing so in the presence of others is inappropriate. If you need to do this, it’s better to go to a restroom.
Bending over the table
Bending over to reach food or salt shakers at the table is incorrect. If necessary, kindly ask someone nearby to pass it to you. Hosts should arrange the table well so guests can effortlessly access everything.
Serving food before other guests arrive
An essential etiquette rule is to refrain from eating before the host and not to settle at the table before everyone else is seated.
Talking while eating
When dining, avoid discussing controversial topics or political issues and eat calmly, ensuring you do not point at others with your utensils.
Overdoing offers
Excessive offers from some guests can make the host uncomfortable, so it’s best to offer at the beginning of the meal and avoid overdoing it.
Excessive phone usage
Holding your phone and talking during parties is inappropriate. At the start, turn your phone off or set it to silent, and if expecting an important call, be aware that it’s not suitable to respond at the dining table.
Eating hastily
Eating quickly or taking large bites while cutting food into tiny pieces is disrespectful to the host. Avoid blowing on food and slurping. Use the proper utensils instead of your hands to remove bones from meat.
Arriving too early at a party
Remember to stay neither too long nor too short at the host’s home. Arriving before the designated time might mean the host is not ready yet. Staying too long can also exhaust them.
Exploring all parts of the host’s home
During parties, do not wander around the host’s house without permission, as exploring without consent can upset them.
