Appropriate Behavior of a Woman Before and During a Party with Her Husband
Hospitality is one of the best characteristics of us Iranians, deeply rooted in our culture. It is emphasized by the greats and scholars of Persia. In Iranian culture, guests are held in high regard and are considered the beloved of God. During gatherings and parties, Iranians set a vibrant table filled with delicious food, and hosts serve their guests with utmost respect and politeness.
In some Iranian families, hospitality is viewed solely as the woman’s duty, which is a mistaken belief. Men should also be good hosts. In this section ofSelMagzWe teach women what they need to remind their husbands before guests arrive.
Delegate Responsibilities Before Guests Arrive
Unfortunately, some men do not see themselves as hosts when guests arrive and only engage in conversation, remaining seated. If your husband is one of these, delegate tasks before guests come over.
Remind Him That Hosting Is Not Solely the Woman’s Responsibility
Establish an environment at home where hosting and entertaining guests is a family duty. Everyone in the household should actively participate in welcoming guests.
Prepare Serving Items in Advance
Men often dislike being sent to the store multiple times on small errands. Therefore, prepare the serving items ahead of the party and avoid remembering them in the middle of the gathering.
Thank Your Husband
Do not forget to respect your spouse and treat them kindly in social gatherings, so that others will also respect them.
Avoid Calling Your Spouse Excessively
In parties, when you need to communicate with your spouse, use polite phrases like ‘please’ and ‘kindly’. Do not command or give orders in public; be considerate and avoid repeatedly calling your spouse’s name.
Don’t Forget About Your Spouse While Entertaining
Show respect for your spouse by paying attention to details and also serving them among friends and family. This behavior reflects how much they mean to you.
Do Not Interrupt Your Spouse
One mistake that couples sometimes make is interrupting each other. This may happen due to a shared understanding, but you should not cut off your spouse’s speaking. If you have something to add, wait until they finish before you speak.
Avoid Joking Too Much
Before the party, remind your spouse to keep personal matters private and avoid repeating any hurtful jokes.
Engage Warmly with Your Guests
Tell your spouse that one of the essential rules of hospitality is making guests feel comfortable; value your guests and do not leave them unattended, allowing them to feel your attention. If they don’t know each other, use your conversations to introduce them.
